From Dan Savage's column ( http://www.thestranger.com/seattle/SavageLove?oid=10890931 ) :
"I'm a 20-year-old female college student living with my 23-year-old boyfriend. We've been dating for two years, and our sex life has always been awesome. My boyfriend has a high libido, so high that I can't always get him off when he wants it. He says I don't want to have sex with him, when we have sex probably four times a week and I'm totally happy to give him head, jerk him off, or take off my clothes for him any other time he asks. Whenever we sit down together, he's immediately horny and he gets cranky when I have to say no. Is this a ridiculously high libido? I try to be GGG, and he does the same for me, but I hate feeling guilty about not having sex with him constantly. I've started just telling him to masturbate to porn, and he does it willingly but usually whines a little first about how I "never" want to have sex. Totally false! My body just can't take it every day. What do I do?"
Most of the women I know can't take a good pounding more than this often unless they're pro. That's why it's good to have many "friends with benefits".
Although Mr. Savage says that guys also can't take that much penetration, I know men, including me, who can. Some guys get pumped that much (4 times) in a day. I sometimes get saddle-sore after a thorough thrashing from my "Daddy" Paul. Often we go all night at his parent's vineyard and then doze in the sun during the afternoon.
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